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Mastering Breastfeeding: A First-Time Mom's Guide to Confidence and Success

Writer: Dayana HernandezDayana Hernandez

Updated: Nov 12, 2024

Are you a first-time mom eager to embark on the rewarding journey of breastfeeding? Congratulations on this beautiful bond you're about to forge with your little one! As you step into this new chapter of motherhood, equipping yourself with knowledge and confidence is key to making your breastfeeding experience smooth and enjoyable.


Colostrum 💛


Colostrum is the first milk produced by the breasts, and it's different from breast milk in several ways:


  • When it's produced

    Colostrum is produced during pregnancy and in the first few days after birth, while breast milk is produced in larger amounts after a few days. 

  • What it looks like

    Colostrum is thick and yellowish in color, while breast milk is less thick and has a different color. 

  • What it contains

    Colostrum contains more protein, minerals, and fat-soluble vitamins than breast milk, and it's rich in white cells and antibodies. 

  • What it does

    Colostrum helps establish a normal gut microbiome, provides immunity, and helps regulate the suck, swallow, and breathe cycle during feeds. 

  • How much a baby needs

    Babies only need a small amount of colostrum at each feeding, about a teaspoonful. 


Colostrum is sometimes called "liquid gold" because of its deep yellow color and because it's so valuable for babies. 

colostrum

The Bonding Miracle: Breastfeeding Positions


Breastfeeding is a natural process, yet it might feel overwhelming at first. Understanding the various breastfeeding positions can significantly impact your comfort and your baby's latch. Let's explore some common positions:

Breastfeeding Positions

1. Cradle Hold


This classic position involves cradling your baby in your arms, supporting their head with one hand, while using the other hand to support your breast.

Cradle Hold

2. Cross-Cradle Hold


Another popular choice, the cross-cradle hold involves holding your baby with the arm opposite to the breast you're nursing from. This position allows more control and helps with latching.

Cross-Cradle Hold

3. Football Hold


Ideal for new moms or those recovering from a C-section, the football hold involves tucking your baby under your arm like a football, with their legs positioned behind you.

Football Hold

4. Side-lying Position


For some moms, this position works best after the early days of breastfeeding. The other positions may be easier to learn first. Practicing this position during the daytime can be very helpful.

Side-lying Position

5. Laid-back position


The laid-back position works well for newborns. It may work best for people with smaller breast size. For the laid-back position you should be reclined but not lying flat. Support your back with something comfortable and lay the baby on your tummy.

Laid-back position


Experiment with these positions to find what works best for you and your baby. Remember, comfort is key!


Is My Baby Latched on Well?


When latching on your baby, use your nipple to tickle the center of your baby’s bottom lip. This will encourage your baby to open their mouth wide (like they are yawning). Aim your nipple slightly towards the roof of their mouth, bringing your baby to you, chin first.


Good latch-on checkpoints for your baby include:


  • Your baby’s nose is nearly touching your breast, that is, no further away than a credit card edge

  • Your baby’s lips are flanged

  • At least ½ inch of your breast around the base of your nipple is in your baby’s mouth.


If the latch is uncomfortable or painful, gently place your finger in your baby’s mouth, between his gums, to detach him and try again.


A baby who is offered the breast will suck without swallowing as they position the nipple in their mouth and tells your breast they are ready for the milk to let down. When your baby begins to receive milk, you will see their jaw working all the way back to their ear. your baby’s temples will wiggle. You will also hear them swallowing, quickly at first, then more slowly, as their appetite is satisfied.

Baby Latched


How to increase breast milk supply?


Here are some tips to increase your breast milk supply:


  • Breastfeed often

    Breastfeed your baby frequently, at least every 2–3 hours, and at least 8 times in 24 hours. 

 

  • Empty your breasts

    Make sure your baby is latching well and emptying your breasts at each feeding. You can also try expressing milk for a few minutes after each feeding. 


  • Pump

    Use a breast pump to increase milk production. You can pump eight or more times per day, and you can try pumping both breasts at the same time. 

     

  • Skin-to-skin contact

    Hold your baby skin-to-skin for about 20 minutes after feedings. This is called "kangaroo care" and it can increase milk supply. 

     

  • Eat well

    Eat a healthy, balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains. You should also consume about 300 to 500 calories per day more than you needed to maintain your pre-pregnancy weight. 

     

  • Stay hydrated

    Drink plenty of water, and try to eat foods that are naturally rich in water, such as fruits and vegetables. 

 

  • Rest

    Get plenty of sleep, and try to rest when your baby is asleep. 

     

  • Avoid alcohol and drugs

    Avoid smoking and using alcohol and other drugs. 


Persistent Pain When Breastfeeding


Breastfeeding is not supposed to hurt. Yet many mothers and nursing parents complain of pain associated with breastfeeding, which can be a leading cause for early weaning. When someone calls about persistent nipple pain or breast pain, a Leader can review the most common causes for pain while breastfeeding, such as:


  • Suboptimal latch and positioning (Positioning)

  • Teething or nursing acrobatics in an older child (Teething)

  • Frequent use of artificial nipples such as pacifiers, bottles or nipple shields as these can affect a baby’s latch (Nipple Confusion)

  • Poorly fitting pump flanges or excessively high pressure which can cause trauma to the nipple and/or breast

  • Engorgement or mastitis (Mastitis)

  • Pregnancy


If these common causes can be ruled out yet the mother still experiences persistent pain, more investigation will be needed.


Leaders should always refer callers with persistent pain to their health care professional. Callers could also be encouraged to contact an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) where available, for further help with persistent pain issues associated with breastfeeding. If the concerns can still not be resolved, a consultation with a breast specialist is the next step.



💡Tips for First-Time Moms


Navigating the world of breastfeeding can feel overwhelming, but fear not! Here are some tips to help you navigate this beautiful journey with confidence:


1. Seek Support


Joining a breastfeeding support group or consulting a lactation consultant can provide invaluable guidance and encouragement during your breastfeeding journey. There are several valuable Social Media accounts, such as karrie_locher, prolactancia, and lactanciamitos (the last two are Spanish speakers), that offer informative content on breastfeeding and postpartum.


2. Stay Hydrated and Nourished


Remember to drink plenty of water and maintain a well-balanced diet to support your milk supply and overall well-being.


3. Practice Self-Care


Taking care of yourself is crucial in being able to care for your little one. Rest when you can, ask for help when needed, and don't hesitate to prioritize your own well-being.


4. Trust Your Instincts


Every breastfeeding journey is unique, and you know your baby best. Trust your instincts, embrace the process, and remember that asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.


5. Be Patient


Breastfeeding is a learning curve for both you and your baby. Be patient with yourself, allow room for mistakes, and celebrate each small victory along the way.


Embrace Your Journey


As you embark on this beautiful journey of breastfeeding, remember that it's okay to seek help, take breaks, and grow at your own pace. Every moment spent nurturing your baby is a precious one, filled with love, patience, and the unwavering bond between a mother and her child.


Embrace this journey with confidence, knowing that you have the strength within you to overcome any challenge that comes your way. You're not alone in this, and your commitment to providing the best start for your baby is a testament to your unwavering love and dedication.


Celebrate each milestone achieved, each tear shed and each smile shared, as you master the art of breastfeeding one latch at a time. Here's to you, new mom, for embracing this beautiful journey of motherhood with grace and determination.


Remember, you are a master in the making, and with each feeding session, you are nurturing not just your baby's body but also your soul. Trust in yourself, lean on your support system, and savor every precious moment of this magical experience.


Let's embark on this journey together, one feed at a time. You've got this, mama! 💪


Here are some interesting facts about breastfeeding:


  • Breast milk composition

    Breast milk changes during a feeding session, becoming thicker and fattier towards the end. The first milk produced after birth is called colostrum, which is rich in nutrients and antibodies. 


  • Breastfeeding benefits

    Breastfeeding can help with a baby's brain development, reduce the risk of ear infections, and lower the risk of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS). It can also help mothers heal faster after giving birth, and reduce the risk of breast and ovarian cancer, diabetes, and heart disease. 


  • Breastfeeding hormones

    Breastfeeding releases oxytocin, which is known as the "love hormone" and can help reduce stress and anxiety


  • Breast milk production

    Producing breast milk uses about 25% of the body's energy, which is more than the brain uses. Exclusive breastfeeding: You can burn around 500–700 calories per day.


  • Breast milk detection

    Babies can smell their mother's breast milk and use this to identify her. 


  • Breast milk temperature

    A mother's breasts can sense changes in a baby's body temperature and adjust to heat them up or cool them down. 


  • Breastfeeding and cost

    Breastfeeding can save a family about $2,000–$4,000 per year compared to the cost of formula. 


  • Breastfeeding and bone density

    Breastfeeding can help improve bone density in mothers throughout their lives.



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